I’m going through something big. I just came out of a month long “Dark Night Of the Soul”…. yuck.
One of my favorite recovery saying is “suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem”. I refuse to put my family (however estranged some of us might be) through another funeral! Every problem has many solutions….. Sometimes the solution is to just sit tight and wait for more to be revealed. Never give up! Never loose faith! Everything changes. Life is change and sometimes shit has to fall apart before it can fall together…. sometimes as is the case right now, my life looks like a kitchen remodel. Thank the universe for a 10th step. Everyday i take my own inventory and ask myself if ive done the best i can. And i asked myself if i owe myself or anybody else an amends. Today so far im pretty clear that its a successful day!!! Im clean/sober, single, lonely for a good man, have a splitting head ache…but i got chocolate chip pancakes made for my kid and her friend who spent the night…
Got to watch a flour throwing party unfold in my kitchen as we were making pizzas last night. Flour is a beautiful thing when thrown. It makes a pale misty cloud…of course it also makes a heck of a mess hahaha!! But i had planned on cleaning the floors really good last night anyway. So then the girls decided to make flour snow angels on the kichen floor. It was priceless.
I miss so many of those priceless moments because working full time and doing it all alone means im frequently in a hurry or stressed out about money. Time and money are always in such short supply!!! So last night was a precious rare moment.
Im grateful.
And i finished my first project yesterday. Its drying at the clay studio. I will start on the next one today. Trying to get my hands and my heart to remember how to do it, praying thatlo i can do it- that i can make a better life for me and my daughter….that i can make it.